As a rule, my rule, when I want my wife to Pay Attention she had better do it.
I'm your average Joe who goes to work every morning and comes home at the end of the day hungry, tired and usually horny.
My wife knew before she married me that I would spank her for not doing what she should, obeying me.
Sometimes it takes a little reminder for her to remember who the boss is in my house.
It sticks with her and for the next week or so she always asks me if I'd like her to Pay Attention after I get home from work.