There is a term known as Passive/Aggressive behavior that is a big reason why I am a Spanker. It's a terrible experience for anyone in a subordinate position to have the one who is in authority over them be Passive/Aggressive or PA.
A person who is PA will see something you did wrong but not say anything about it to correct your behavior. What they do is bottle it up inside and give you the silent treatment for hours, days, weeks, months or even years. Really, even years. I recall a phone conversation I had with my father years ago in my late 30's when I inquired why he was still distant with me. His response was that he was still upset about something or some things I did when I was a teenager.
I was shocked! Our conversation basically ended with me telling him that it was his responsibility to take care of what I had done, or hadn't done, back then. Since he didn't discipline or punish me back then I told him he should get on with life and not to hold his breath that I would be making up for it some 20 years later. Hell, I didn't even remember what he was referring to.
Today when I meet people and get to know them I discover so many of them were raised with parents who were PA. Many go to work with bosses who are PA. It really is a terrible way to live. You end up walking around on pins and needles.
I know that is a big reason why I'm a Spanker today. I am not Passive/Aggressive and those I am in authority over, or who have submitted themselves to my authority, are told right away what their offense is and they always know how I will take care of it. There's no wondering and anxiety in it for them. There's no trying to guess what they did wrong. They are told, it's explained why it was wrong and they are Spanked.
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