It is such a clear understanding that when something needs to be done and isn't or something hasn't been done that should have been, a spanking is on the way. There's no debate, or arguing about it. It's simply cut and dry and right to it. I can't imagine any other way.
The same goes for sexual gratification. My wife feels it's her duty to sexually satisfy me so she does. She enjoys that I come into the kitchen and put my hands all over her while she's cooking or doing whatever. She feels wanted. She made it a point to tell me that it was fine to remind her, with a spanking, if she was lacking in the area of pleasing me sexually too. Spanking can be such a good thing.