Today my wife and I were driving around running errands and she started thanking me that I spank her. She explained how, without limits, she would try to get away with as much as she could. Knowing that if she does or doesn't do something will get her bottom spanked gives her a sense of feeling loved and secure. "It's too bad that other wives can't know this feeling", she said.
She also talked about how much of a man, from her point of view, it makes me. There are a few times she gets away with something because I forget to spank her for it but that's different than not being willing to put her across my lap, pull down her panties and blister her bottom when she needs it. To her, being a man isn't just bringing home a pay check. To her it's standing strong and telling her she's crossed a boundary.
I love her so and straight from her lips, yes, "Wives should be spanked!"