This morning started out like every other morning for me. I pushed the button on my coffee maker, stepped outside for a cigarette to enjoy the nice cool morning air, went back inside, poured a cup of coffee and sat down to watch the early morning news. The top story was about 3 young women, in their 20's now, who had been abducted 10 years ago. It appears they were abducted by 3 brothers who according to neighbors were people you would never suspect doing such a thing.
This led me to think about all of those women and men on a variety of Kink social network sites who want to explore fantasies of rape, bondage and captivity. Those aren't my thing, or kink, but for many it is. I see it everywhere on blogs and kink social sites. Those with that fantasy are seeking to do it for a short period of time, for play. It's their way of escaping reality, I suppose, for just a little while and having fun.
But, then you have sickos like the men that abducted these girls and now those who do it for fantasy play are going to be seen as sick too. There's always someone fucking things up for everyone else isn't there!
If I was one of those girls' father I don't know what I'd be doing right now. Perhaps I would be contemplating how I could get a hold of the men who took my daughter and making sure they are NEVER found! I know that's harsh but that's how I would feel.
So for all of you who indulge, from time to time, in that type of fantasy play here's a few things I hope you are practicing.
First, don't do this type of play with someone you've just met. Get to know them first. Make sure the first time you meet them it's in a public place. Always tell a close friend where you're going and make them your contact and check up person. That is call them every 30 minutes to let them know you're alright. Trust, is key when playing with others. I'm sure there will be readers who will have more suggestions on what you should do.
My prayers go out to the 3 girls and their families, friends and loved ones.