Perception - a way of regarding, understanding, or interpreting something; a mental impression.
I'm here on Blogspot, Google+, Twitter, Fetlife, to name a few social media sites where I can post my material without it being a "Violation of Terms" and I'm noticing something over and over. More and more I'm hearing condemnation over spanking in general.
For example, every woman I've spanked in my videos did something wrong that caused them to feel they needed to be punished for, as in a spanking. No one twisted their arm, no one blackmailed them and certainly no one made them do anything they didn't agree to doing, or submitting to. But still, there are people out there who make comments that I find both stupid at times and mostly shocking.
"Why would anyone agree or submit to such a thing?"
"I would never let some sadistic bastard like you do that to me."
"Who the fuck do you think you are that you can go around spanking women and think it's okay?"
Those are just a few comments that have been made through the years. What I guess I don't get is why they make the comments in the first place? You see there are a lot of things out there that I don't understand and strongly disapprove of. For the life of me I don't understand why anyone would be interested in watching videos of a woman on her hands and knees crapping. Or videos of people having sex with animals. In addition there are a lot of other videos that would be more tame than those that I'm not interested in viewing either. In saying that I don't go around to blogs, tweets, etc, and make nasty comments about how much I disapprove. To me that would be a huge waste of time because they wouldn't stop making or liking a video or picture that I disapprove of anyway.
From time to time I get people commenting that spanking and sex shouldn't be something done together in a video. It's like they think there's a "Definite does and don'ts dictionary" out there that says you can't do both and that it has to be one or the other.
I've even had unbelievably rude comments about spanking outdoors. "Oh my god! How could you do such a thing!"
Really? People actually believe that I happen to be walking outside with a spankee and three or four video cameras and right then and there the cameras suddenly positioned themselves and I bent her over and began spanking her in full view of any and everyone around?!
Well, if that's what they believe then we at Spank Her 4 Real Videos are doing a better job that we thought.
The women in our videos want to be spanked. Most have a deep desire to be spanked. They understand it. They want it or like it. And many of them want the spankings because they truly feel they deserve them.
In part it's "Hollywood" and in part it's real life. So for those of you who aren't into spanking, go to a "how to cook" blog and comment there. For those who are just into spanking and not sex and spanking go to our just spanking videos and try accepting that there are those of us who like both "just spanking" as in discipline and "Sex and spanking" as in training videos.